Posted on May 10, 2014

So you fell “IN LOVE” with a Saudi….

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To all the ladies (& fewer gents), Falling in love with a Saudi be it abroad or in country is not a rare phenomenon. Yes, you may have not come by many Saudi’s in the past and by mere fate you may have fallen in love with one. But, let’s be frank for a second, the “Saudi” you’ve fallen for will most likely
be 1. A Muslim, 2. Traditional, 3. An Arab. It seems that only in the cases of girl meets Saudi does the girl become blind. So blind that she fails to interpret the tell tale signs of most men. Yes, Saudi’s are men.

Since being here I don’t think I have gone a week without hearing, reading or witnessing the now way too common Saudi boy loves plays foreign girl. Some of them go so far as marrying them, bearing children and even relocating to Saudi for their love. It is only here do these women realize that they have been blind all along. And the signs were there all along.
This post is by no way meant to discredit the pain
and suffering that many women face dealing in relationships with Saudi men. It
is however a wake up call to many women to realize that most Saudi men
act and behave in the same way. So you shouldn’t discard that fact that him
being from Saudi means he is not atypical man.
I am also not blind to the fact that Saudi men may behave differently than other men but they ALL have the essential MANLY goals and ideals. Just like the average man a Saudi wants…
1. A BEAUTIFUL WIFE THAT LOVES HIM
2. A SON TO PASS ON HIS LEGACY (NAME)
3. TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND RICH
4. TO NOT BE IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP
5. TO BE SERVED LIKE A KING (COOKED DINNERS/ CLEAN HOME)
6. TO BE THE KING OF HIS CASTLE (MAN OF THE HOUSE)
7. FOR HIS WIFE TO BE HIS (BELONGS TO HIM)
8. TO BE RESPECTED BY HIS FAMILY, FRIENDS AND PEERS
9. TO BE THE PROTECTOR
10. TO GET ENJOYMENT (SEX) AS MUCH AS
POSSIBLE
Do I agree with these entirely no but I’m not a man. Would a man agree with all the goals and ideals women may have? Most likely not. Not all men are the same and not everyone is going to get hurt by a
Saudi man. But if you do, just make sure you didn’t fail yourself first.
My heart and wishes go out to all the women that are in such predicaments and I hope you come out of them stronger and fiercer than ever.

 

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